True grace is how you say this word

20 Jul
2017

Saying no to someone is supremely hard.

We are hard wired to belong – to a tribe, a community, a group.
And in the past saying no meant isolation. Perhaps even death.

And while saying no nowadays mostly doesn't come with a death certificate, the habit has stayed.

If I say no – I will not belong. I will hurt the person. A negative image of mine will be created.

Here is a reminder

When you say no – you say no to the request, not to the person.

True grace is refusing someone in a way they don't feel rejected

1 Response to True grace is how you say this word

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Ankit Singhal

July 20th, 2017 at 4:37 pm

Amazing thought Ankur.Probably this is the reason you are where you are.

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